1. You get to decide whether you want to watch TV or not. And watch what you want to watch.
  2. You get to read in bed without having the Narcissist pawing all over you.
  3. You get to decide what clothes to wear.
  4. You get to think. For yourself.
  5. You finally get a chance to do some research into narcissism, and get answers to questions you’ve had about the Narcissist for months.
  6. You get to listen to your favorite 80’s music because you won’t have the Narc bitching at you about living in the past.
  7. You won’t have to be devalued anymore.
  8. You get to regain your strength, self-confidence, and self-esteem.
  9. You get to reconnect with family and friends.
  10. You get to learn how to laugh again


Originally answered on Quora by Serena Prince.

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